What Is Getting in the Way of My Motivation to Learn?

Before You Begin

This self-check is designed for teens ages 13–17 and should be completed by the teenager—not by the parent.

A parent or legal guardian should first enter the parent email address and confirm permission. The teenager can then complete the questions independently.

Answer based on what is usually true—not what an adult might expect you to say. There are no right or wrong answers.

Your individual answers will not be included in the result email sent to the parent.

This is an educational reflection tool, not a diagnosis.

When I think about everything I need to do for school, it can feel like too much to handle. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I avoid beginning an assignment when I am worried that I may not do it well. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

Even when I plan to study, I get distracted before I make real progress. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I often wonder why I need to learn some of the things I am asked to study. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

Conversations about school at home often feel like pressure, criticism, or another lecture. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I put off starting because I do not know which task I should begin with. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

A mistake or a low grade can make me feel as though I am not good at the subject. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I have difficulty staying with one school task long enough to finish it. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

Schoolwork can feel disconnected from my own interests, goals, or future. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

When adults remind me about schoolwork, I sometimes feel like shutting down or arguing instead of starting. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

When several things are due, even a small task can feel difficult to begin. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I sometimes spend so much time worrying about doing something perfectly that it becomes harder to complete. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I often wait until the last minute, even when I know it will make things more stressful. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

It is difficult to put effort into schoolwork when I cannot see a personal reason for doing it. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

I sometimes hide, avoid, or minimize school problems because I do not want another conflict or lecture. *Not at allSometimesOftenVery often

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Parent Email Address *

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